Taking responsibility for your life is owning your thoughts and feelings. When we deflect our thoughts and feelings onto others we are giving away ownership of ourselves. This places you in the victim role, no longer taking control of your life. Tell yourself daily, "I am not a victim!" Take life by the Horns and OWN IT! Placing yourself in the victim role lends to repressed emotions, depression and ultimately an unhealthy life. A vicious cycle no one deserves to live. Start taking care of yourself today, start living!